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An unexpected bestseller, this self-help book for women who want to hook a man seems to have struck a chord with desperate American women. Fein and Schneider, whose main credentials seem to be that they are married, lay out the rules to be followed for successfully snagging a dream hunk. And these rules are hard as cast-iron--Rule Five: Don't Call Him and Rarely Return His Calls. The idea is to return to pre-feminist mind games, exploiting the male hunting urge by playing hard to get. The result seems unliberating--Rule Seventeen: Let Him Take the Lead--but it seems to be capturing female minds. Rules Girls are eyeing the phone with steely resolve, and Rules seminars are springing up nationwide. Curious bachelors have been observed studying The Rules, some frowning, others with the supercilious smile of the hunter.--This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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***THIS WEEK'S QUESTION***

Dave,

In one of the newsletters I received a couple
weeks ago you gave the advice to someone to learn
'what topics fascinate women.' I found this
newsletter specifically interesting because ive
found myself in this same situation were when im
on a date things get quiet and I cant find
anything to say. I know you have already
recommended a good book on comedy, "comedy writing
secrets," but what is a good book explaining how
to tell stories? And, what are some topics that
fascinate women? Any help would be greatly
appreciated.

M.G. Gainesville, FL.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a great question.

There are really two very different (and
important) aspects to the "conversations with
women" topic:

1. The HOW.

2. The WHAT.

THE HOW

Most guys want to know "what to talk about"
with women.

It only makes sense that you should talk about
things that women are interested in... right?

Well... partially.

It is actually FAR MORE IMPORTANT to talk about
whatever topic you're talking about in the RIGHT
WAY.

In other words, if you don't understand HOW to
carry on a conversation that creates ATTRACTION,
then it really won't matter WHAT you talk about...
because the woman you're talking to won't FEEL
anything towards you.

The HOW of conversation includes (but is not
limited to):

-Your body language
-Eye contact
-The Cocky & Funny style of communicating
-Flirting
-Sending mixed messages
-Directing the conversation
-Dealing with common questions and topics

...and many other things.

My point is that if you're running into a lot
of "uncomfortable silences", nervousness, and
other usual challenges, then you probably need to
get the HOW handled before the WHAT.

THE WHAT

With that said, there are several topics that
are GREAT to discuss with women.

But instead of just giving them to you, I want
you to do yourself a favor and THINK for a minute.

What topics do women PAY to hear about?

Hint: Cosmo magazine, romance novels, soap
operas, nighttime dramas, the fashion channel...
etc.

If you think about it, the answer to this
question is rather obvious.

For whatever reason, WOMEN tend to LOVE:

-Drama
-Conflict
-Romance
-Famous people and their lives

So... it's really quite easy to enjoy a
conversation with a woman about these topics.

Here are a few ideas:

1. Play amateur psychologist to the stars.

Talk about how someone famous is doing
something really stupid, then psycho-analyze them.

Actors, rock stars and famous sports figures
just LOVE to do crazy things... cheat on their
spouses... and then say "I didn't do it".

These situations are BEGGING to be picked apart
with a fine-toothed, critical, funny, sarcastic
mind.

2. Find an interesting-looking group of people and
guess what's going on.

Look around you, and find a couple sitting at a
table that looks like they're on their first date.

Then start making fun of how the guy is acting,
how he's dressed, his posture, or whatever. Talk
about how the woman is thinking that he's a dork
and how he's not getting any, no matter how many
compliments he gives her.

Analyzing what's going on with a close group of
others is big fun, and women love it.

3. Make fun of someone famous.

Talk about how a super model is too skinny, or
how Ben Affleck can only date women named Jennifer.

All you have to do is read a few gossip
magazines to get all kinds of great stuff to make
fun of.

It's fun, it's funny, and it's a great way to
talk like you're all that.

4. Talk about other people's love lives.

Talk about the problems that others are going
through when it comes to love and romance, then
volunteer completely ridiculous theories about
what's going on.

Mention a friend you had who broke up with his
girlfriend because she gained weight, then after
you've told the story, make up a random theory
about how women who gain weight are actually
lesbians.

But make sure it's funny, whatever you invent.

...I think you can "feel me".

The point here is that women are NATURALLY
fascinated and drawn to certain topics... so USE
THEM.

The REAL benefit of talking to women about
topics that really interest them is that you can
USE ALL THE OTHER IDEAS THAT YOU'RE LEARNING while
you're talking!

You can AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION as the
conversation goes on... as long as you know what
else to do as you talk.

Oh, by the way...

Topics to avoid: Rape, kidnapping, stalking,
death, chess, computers, comic books, Star Wars
and your secret love for wrestling.

NEVER talk about topics that might really freak
a woman out, or topics that make you look like the
biggest loser alive, especially in the beginning.

You'll create BAD VIBES that will make any
attraction that you've created INSTANTLY
disappear.

Others to really avoid include talking
negatively about yourself, talking about how
desperate you are or how long it's been since
you've been on a date, asking if she likes you or
if you're her "type"... and any other WUSS-BAG
topic that makes you look insecure and needy.

Remember, the key to success with women is
creating a powerful emotional ATTRACTION between
you and her.

If you don't know how to do this, then NOTHING
you do is going to help you very much.

If you DO know how and why women feel
ATTRACTION for men, then almost ANYTHING you do or
talk about can amplify it.

If you want to get a powerful education about
how to make women feel that magical emotion of
ATTRACTION for you, then I'd recommend that you
check out my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD
program.

It contains over 12 hours of digitally recorded
and edited material, plus a 100 page workbook that
contains all of my best ideas and techniques for
approaching, dating, and getting physical with
women.

The five guest interviews alone are worth the
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Go watch the video preview clips here:

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If you've already gone through my Advanced
Series and you'd like to perfect your skills
meeting women in bars and clubs, using Cocky &
Funny humor, or using your body language to create
attraction, go check out some of my newest
programs on these topics. You can watch great
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more about them on their websites.

Meeting Women In Bars & Clubs is here:

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Cocky Comedy And Other Conversation Skills is
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Body Language For Attracting Women is here:

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And if you'd like to get the basics of how
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I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.





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2) Tell me what's working for you before you
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stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how
well your stuff works" comments, but the fact is
that I DO need to hear all of the specifics...
because this helps other guys to see what's
working in different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success
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4) At the end of the email, give me your
initials and tell me where you're from.

5) Send it to me at:

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***QUESTION***

Hi, Dave. I've recently separated after 13 years of
marriage and was pretty nervous about the dating
scene. I was immediately thinking of all the wussy
stuff you're "supposed" to do on a first date and
to attract a woman. By chance, I got on your
mailing list, and you answered the questions I had
at the perfect time. I realized that I need to do
the same thing I've been doing with women for the
past 13 years--tease them and be funny. I was never
interested in dating my female friends, and I
treated them as buddies, and they always chatted
and danced with me at parties and told my wife she
was lucky to have a guy like me. Thanks to you, I
know that I can keep being my cocky and funny self
and I have a better chance of meeting women than by
fawning over them. The preliminary flirting and
meeting I've done so far has been good practice for
me--I've gotten a few numbers, but more important,
have been learning from my mistakes when I don't
get one, and I'm going to get your ebook to learn
even more so the mistakes become less frequent.

I do have a question though. I have been skimming
the online dating sites, and I find that over 90%
of the women's profiles say they're looking for a
nice guy who will spend romantic evenings with them
and be caring and attentive and all the "wussy"
stuff you decry. What gives? Does it make a
difference that the online women are looking for
long-term relationships and want something more
stable, or are they fooling themselves and asking
for something they're really not attracted to but
think they should be?

Thanks again for you help! You saved me from the
Sahara Desert of Dating.

R.B.
Chicago, IL


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes!

You've asked one of my favorite questions of all
time...

You're basically asking "Why is it that women all
say that they want a guy who acts like a WUSSY?".

And more importantly, why is it that women
actually RESPOND to something totally different?

Here it is in a nutshell:

We humans have NO IDEA what we REALLY want.

We THINK that we know what we want, but we don't.

We come into this world pre-programmed with all
kinds of bizarre drives and desires... but many
of them are so strange that our cultures and
religions have made these natural drives "wrong".

Now, when you have a desire for something that
is "wrong", what are you going to do?

You can't exactly run around saying "I want the
thing that everyone thinks is wrong".

Of course not.

You'd be put in a looney bin and forced to take
all kinds of medication.

Either that or you'd be a rock star.

Whatever.

Look... I spent MANY YEARS of my life trying
to get women to like me by kissing up to them,
being "nice", buying them thoughtful gifts,
taking them nice places, and generally being
a complete WUSSBAG.

Did it work?

Not so well.

Or course, I just figured that the reason that
it wasn't working so well was because I wasn't
good-looking or rich enough.

Only after spending a lot of time learning from
guys who were "naturally" good with women did I
begin to see what was REALLY going on.

The fact is that if you ask most women what they
want in a man, they'll tell you that they want
a "nice guy". They want someone who is "A good
communicator". They want someone who is kind,
thoughtful, and generous.

I have a theory about this.

It's a dangerous idea, though.

I think that most women say that they want a
nice, ass-kissing, Wussy guy because...

...sit down for this...

THEY CAN'T FIND ANY REAL MEN IN
THE WORLD, SO THEY DECIDE THAT
THEY'RE GOING TO HAVE TO SETTLE
FOR "NICE".

So stop paying attention to all this stuff
that women SAY that they want, and start doing
the things I'm teaching you and getting
RESULTS.

Thanks for your email. Good stuff.




***QUESTION***

hey my girl lives in wisconsin i aint see in her a
while shes comin bac tommow and possibly movin in
wit her cousin 2 blocks from my house im nervous
what do i do


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, if I read your email right, I gather:

1) You are not so sharp with words.

2) Your "girl" is also from Wisconsin.

3) She's moving in with her cousin, which tells
me that they're probably getting married.

4) That doesn't surprise me, based on your email.

If I were you, I'd go back to high school...

Until then, use the spell-check feature on your
email or word processor.

Please.



***SUCCESS STORY***

Dear David,

David DeAngelo, you are truly a GENIUS! No,
seriously, I love your work! I'm writing to you
from South Africa for two reasons. Firstly, I have
to thank you!

I have always been a jock. I was able to get almost
any girl I wanted! There were, however, those
elusive few, the cream of the crop, that would
never fall for my charms. For heaven's sake, no
matter what I tried, I just did not make the
breakthrough! I was sure that I would forever have
to do with less than I really wanted.

For anyone listening out there: NEVER settle for
less! Rather read THE BOOK! I've been teasing,
joking, telling girls what to do, what I want,
prefer and absolutely need, what is wrong with them
(Jokingly of course), what they're doing that
irritates me, basically saying and doing just what
I want in a C & F way. Suddenly the elusive few are
like putty in my hands, telling me how DIFFERENT
(!!!) I am and how GOOD(???) I treat them! They
even tell me that I am "THE SWEETEST GUY EVER"!
(This after doing everything possible to bust their
balls!?). IT'S UNBELIEVABLE! They ask ME for MY
number (When I obviously tell them please not to
call me too much or ask whether they're always this
eager or to please take it a bit slower) and what's
more, they call ME, almost every time! Even their
unknown friends call me. I am having the TIME OF MY
LIFE, and I'm ENJOYING IT EXTREMELY! My utmost
thanks again, David, you changed me from good to
masterful.

Now for the second reason: Everyone that's reading
this letter, BUY THE BOOK! I also have a lot of
experience in chatting up girls, I have tried a lot
of approaches, and David DeAngelo's stuff is so far
THE MOST SUCCESSFUL! I love you, man. Keep it up.

PS. Read the book, "GET IT", use it, become
amazing!!!

PPS. David, is it possible for me to get your video
series in South Africa? I would love to buy that as
well.

W.A. , Pretoria, South Africa.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Ah yes... it's amazing how these concepts will help
you take your success with women to the next level,
no matter where you're at now.

I get a lot of email from guys who are handsome,
successful, etc. who are finally enjoying success
with women... now that they're learning the most
important part of the equation.

Thanks for your email.

Oh yes, of course you can get my video program in
South Africa. Just order it. I'll ship it to you.

I'm still offering the "Try it free for a month"
program, so go get it.

http://www.DatingTechniques.net/11977/AdvancedSeries/



***SUCCESS STORY***

Hey David D,

I got your Advanced CD series and it opened my
eyes to a TOTALLY different way of thinking. It's
not just about pick up lines or techniques, you
really get into the psychology and evolution of why
things happen and why we think the way we do...it's
really deep, I enjoyed it...I listened to the whole
thing in 3 days...really and I'm listening to it
more and more. What I like about it is that I can
hear you and your voice tone when delivering some
of the techniques and answering questions from guys
who have common problems...I love it. I got it off
of the free trial offer and no way am I sending it
back. It's deeper than anything I've ever heard and
talks about ATTRACTION, which is a subject no one
ever talks about when it comes to women yet its the
most important part. If she's attracted to you,
you're in, if she's not, you're out...simple! Thats
part of my success, feeling better that I finally
"get it" and starting to see the light. Something
you said made a LOT of sense...either you get it or
you dont. If you get it, you'll see success, if you
dont, you wont. With that said, I want to share
some cocky+funny lines I've come up with on my own
that work well for me:

"Hey, those are nice shoes. Too
bad some homeless kid is running around barefoot
right now!"

"Those are some pretty earrings. I didnt know the
toy store sold earrings like that!"

"What a cute ring (or watch or whatever)! Did you
get that with the kids meal at (fill in your local
restaurant here)?

(I cant believe this one works...) Like if a woman
says something that SHOULD be obvious to everyone
else you say: "Duh!...You're acting more blonde by
the minute". And if the girl really is blonde, you
can say: "Hey, I thought everyone knew that! You
dont have to ACT blonde you know!" This is really
pushing it but it works on most women.

Anyhow, I'll be out with some friends using your
stuff like on the waitresses when we go out. For
instance, once the waitress asked to put my left
over hot wings in a to-go box. I said "Ok, but you
better not put any of my bones in there!" She said:
"Ok, I'll put your bones in there then". (obviously
playing along) She comes back and I check the box
right in front of her and say: "Let's see if
there's bones in here...hmm" But she knew I was
playing. So, it comes time for me to pay the bill
and she hands me my bill but as I reach for it, she
holds onto it and wont give it to me, then she
finally does. She says: "Are you ready to pay?" And
I said: "Be patient! Geez, all you women want is my
money...where are the normal women at?" My friend
next to me says: "What are you doing? Dont say
that! Thats mean!" (he and people that say that
obviously dont "get it"...he tried to get her
attention by being nice ad offering her gifts
earlier and it didnt work) I knew it worked because
on my way out she stopped to say "bye". I didnt get
her digits because I wasn't interested but I said to
myself..."Boy, this stuff works!" I was happy too
because at first I was blind, but now I can see,
halleluah and amen!

I felt so good, I just wanted to share that with
you, hopefully help some of our other guys out
there.


Thanks Dave!

GT from TN


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeahhhh baby.

Now you're starting to understand what's going on.

Here's a quick story for you...

I was in Phoenix this weekend visiting some good
friends of mine.

We went out to a restaurant together.

There were seven of us total.

We were all sitting in a huge booth, and I was
all the way on the inside. In other words, I
was as far as I could have been from the
waitress, and I had to yell over everyone else
at the table to talk to her.

She walked up to the table to take our drink
order. She was wearing this dark outfit...
I think her shirt was dark green, and her
skirt was black.

With it, she had on a PINK BELT.

So just as she walks up, before anyone had a
chance to say ANYTHING to her, I yelled out:

"I really like the way your belt ties the
whole outfit together."

Of course, I said it in a sarcastic tone.

Now, most of the people at the table (all
guys) didn't even get it. They just kind
of smiled and looked at me with the "What
was that?" look.

As the evening went on, I continued to make
fun of her whenever I could (keep in mind,
I had to yell over everyone to do it, and
when I was making fun of her, everyone at
the table had to hear it).

By the way, this girl was 20 years old, and
pretty cute.

Now, as the evening went on, most of the guys
at the table started to get a little bit
nervous about what I was doing.

I mean, this girl was actually starting to act
like she was upset a few times at what I said
to her.

I was really pushing the envelope.

Toward the end of the meal, the guy sitting
across from me began to ask me questions about
what I do.

Another friend of mine had told him that I
write about women and dating, and he wanted to
hear about some of my theories.

This particular gentleman is a very successful
businessman. He's been a millionaire for over
20 years, as it turns out.

I began by explaining to him that most guys tend
to "kiss up" to women, chase them around, and
do things to demonstrate that they're "nice"...
but that most men never consider the fact that
women feel a powerful emotional and physical
ATTRACTION to something totally different.

I told him that the thing that made women feel
ATTRACTION was often teasing, busting on, and
being difficult with women...

...and I went on to share some of my other
theories with him.

At one point, I even told him that if you have
the guts to ANTAGONIZE a women in a playful
way, you can sometimes make her feel such a
powerful attraction to you that she doesn't
even know what to do.

This guy was looking at me as if I was CRAZY.

He was watching me tease this waitress, and
seeing her act upset and offended at the things
I was saying.

He was totally convinced that what I was doing
was making this girl HATE me.

All the other guys at the table were convinced
of the same thing.

Even my friends who KNEW me didn't think that
this girl liked me.

So what happened?

At the end of the meal, after she brought over
the check, she walked around the end of the
booth so she could talk to me alone...

Then she reached over, pulled my hair...

AND HANDED ME A NOTE WITH HER NUMBER.

No, I didn't ask for it.

No, I wasn't even interested in her.

Of course, all the guys at the table were
stunned... ESPECIALLY the older successful
guy sitting across from me that thought I
was crazy.

It was a good time.

Thought you'd enjoy the story...



***QUESTION***

I have been reading your mailbags for quite
sometime now and after reading your book, I'm a
little confused. You always said not to be a wuss,
but you mentioned in your ebook about opening doors
and pulling out chairs and doing other nice things
when you go for coffee or something. Isn't that
being a wuss? Please break it down for me.

J
Chicago, IL


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Great question.

Let me explain.

There is a concept known as "Chivalry".

Now, there is much debate about what chivalry
actually MEANS...

But most people describe chivalry loosely as
"Being a perfect gentleman, demonstrating perfect
manners, and acting courteous towards women".

Incidentally, the word was originally a French
word that meant "horseman", and it has a lot of
associations with knighthood.

The image of a dark, handsome knight coming to
rescue a princess who is in distress will give
you an idea of how it all fits together.

Now, the PROBLEM comes when men begin to
CONFUSE "chivalry" with "ass kissing".

You've probably heard me say that most women
know EXACTLY what "sexual tension" is, and
most men have no idea.

Same thing is true when it comes to chivalry.

Most women know EXACTLY what it is, and most
men are so confused that they would actually
be better off if they knew NOTHING AT ALL.

If you could build a miracle device that
could magically go inside the minds of a
thousand women and create a picture of what
they all thought "chivalry" was, here's what
I think you'd find...

An image of a strong, masculine, adventurous
man... one who needs nothing... one who is
very driven towards his own personal goals in
life... one who RADIATES sexual confidence...

...and then you'd see him doing certain things
like opening a door for a lady, pulling out
her chair, walking on the outside of the curb
to protect her, etc.

What you WOULD NOT EVER see is a weak, ass-
kissing, apologetic, unmotivated, approval-
seeking man who is opening doors and pulling
out chairs to IMPRESS a woman.

Chivalry is ALL ABOUT the MAN doing the
chivalrous things, not about the things he's
doing.

In these newsletters you see a lot of letters
from guys who write in to say "I don't like
the idea of teasing women, being Cocky & Funny,
and all the other things you say. I'm a NICE
guy. What happened to being a GOOD GUY? What
happened to BEING YOURSELF and having a woman
like you for who you are?".

I'll tell you what happened to it.

IT NEVER EXISTED.

It's a fantasy, just like the Easter Bunny,
dude.

Here's a riddle for you.

Why is it that when you always put your own
needs aside, put a woman on a pedestal, and
do whatever she wants, a woman is annoyed?

And why is it that when you put your own
needs first, play "hard to get", and give
women a major CHALLENGE she says things
like "You're so nice"?

Answer:

WHO CARES!

The fact is that this is the reality we all
live in. And it's time to get with the
program, and do what works, rather than
sitting around telling yourself that you're
right and everyone else is wrong.

This was a great email... it probably deserves
a newsletter dedicated to this topic alone.

I'll see what the feedback is on this particular
comment, and maybe we'll do it sometime.



***COMMENT***

Your stories just seem 'too' tuned (made-up) to
tell 'men' what they want to hear. As you said
'men' are too nice therefore naive! I have my own
techniques and one things for sure - BEING TOO NICE
IS NOT THE WAY! (Only on ugly or desperate women,
right?) Yes!

At least give a few examples instead of telling
guys what they wanna hear then I MAY consider
buying a DVD.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Bite me.

I don't tell guys "what they want to hear".

I tell guys what they NEED to hear.

I'm a pain in the ass, man.

And I don't really care whether or not you buy
my DVD program. In fact, please don't.

One thing that we both agree on...

Being "too nice" isn't the way with women.



***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

I used the most simple technique to test your
methods and was absolutely AMAZED at the results.
Simply put, I am in a bar and see a beautiful
blonde and say to her "I love the dress, but your
hair looks like s@#$". She immediately starts
playing with her hair and runs into the bathroom.
She comes out 20 minutes later and and asks me how
it looks now, which I say "better". She walks away
and talks to her friends, only to come back to me
10 minutes later to sit down and flirt with me.
After a while she goes back to talk to her friends,
and then comes back to me again and says "you are
adorable" and keeps staring at me. She was
absolutely 100% attracted to me. She kept looking
at me in a crazed sort of way that I NEVER
experienced after all of those years being a
"nice guy". A beautiful woman was practically
stalking me and all I ever said was that her
hair looked bad. That's all it took. THAT was
incredible!

EK
St. Petersburg, FL


>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol...

You know, I'm afraid that this newsletter is
going to have guys running out all over the
world to insult women.

If you're reading this right now, make sure you
are VERY FAMILIAR with the principles of being
Cocky & Funny, the voice tone and body language
involved, etc. before you attempt to use it.

If you choose to avoid this advice, you're very
likely to get yourself slapped.

...which is probably what you need anyway.

Where do you learn this stuff? Try my eBook and
my Advanced Series.

By the way, great story. It's CRAZY how women
will start telling you how "sweet" and "cute"
and "nice" you are when you tease them.



***QUESTION***

David, I downloaded your book a few weeks ago and
like a dumbass I put off reading it until
yesterday. I read it straight through and tried
some of your methods later that night... I was
talking to a little hottie and she was giving mad
attitude which I immediately called her out on and
then pulled out the "I know something no one else
who's known you for 5 min" thing and she ate it up
like it was her last meal. Throughout the night
with plenty of C/F, she was like my siamese twin.
Truly incredible since I had just read your book a
few hours before and I have braces! What are some
other "profound comments" that I can throw into my
game? I can't wait to get the advanced series, and
I've got a new outlook on life. Can't thank you
enough.

T


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, I have a profound comment for you:

SAY NOTHING.

This is one of my favorites... so let me tell
you about it.

Women LOVE to say things just to see what you'll
do or say in response.

Have you ever had a woman mention sex early
on in a conversation?

Or maybe a woman will ask a shocking question
like "When was the last time you slept with a
woman?" or "How many women have you slept with?"
or "I have been with a few women... what do you
think of that?".

Or maybe a woman will DO something crazy, like
push her boobs together and ask if you think
she should get implants.

I'm sure you've been there.

These are all things that women do to TEST you
and see what you're all about.

This is yet another topic that deserves an
entire newsletter... so I'll give you the
short version.

One of my favorite responses is to just look
back at her with a blank look, and say
NOTHING AT ALL.

No response.

No facial expression.

No nervous ticks.

No excited looks.

NOTHING.

I'll let the tension build for about 5 or
10 seconds.

They I'll usually fire back some kind of Cocky
& Funny comment like "Does that usually work?".

Of course, this totally short-circuits whatever
she did, and usually gets a deer-in-the-
headlights look with an "I'm so innocent"
question of "What do you mean by that?".

Of course, I usually respond with "You know
EXACTLY what I mean".

Remember, when you're in one of these situations,
the most PROFOUND comment you can make is often
NO comment.

Great question.

You're going to FREAK when you watch my
Advanced Series...



***Success Story***

I got your e-book and additional materials and I
want to say thank you. I already did many of the
things you teach (unintentionally) because that's
what comes naturally, but now I have a much better
understanding as to why it works and what I can do
better, because let's face it, if I was satisfied
with my success I wouldn't be here. I've always
been good at approaching women, getting their
numbers and keeping them interested, but I've
always messed up 'closing escrow'. Your 'pull them
to you', 'Push them away' technique is working,
the hardest part is being patient and not rushing
in.

I took a girl out last weekend to the park for a
picnic (inexpensive experience) with the key
ingredient (sexy food as you advised): cherries
(1lb). I was looking for the cherries to do their
magic and by the time we got to dessert, we were
feeding each other increasing the level of sensual
activity leaped exponentially. Then using your
'pull-push' technique, I would stop and say "Now
you cannot rub me there in a public park" and
would move her hand away from my crotch. Then I
would start again and stop. I made some comments
suggesting that I would be willing to 'allow' her
to touch me more in private, but she didn't take
the bait and wanted to continue a 'public display'.
As you recommend, I cut the picnic short and said
I had to do some work - I run my own business, so
it was plausible even on a weekend. She emailed
the next day and wants to see me again.

The trouble is how to get her from A to B (public
place to bedroom) without giving the game away? I
know you suggest making an excuse - before I read
your materials, I have used grocery shopping i.e.,
taking the bags back to my place- but anyone can
figure what the hidden motive is. If a girl asks
you to her place for 'coffee', you never end up
boiling a kettle. So should I be more direct or
should I wait for her to suggest it?


Thanks in advance.

-H (London)


>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is an interesting question.

I don't really think that you need to make any
"excuses".

I think that your mistake was that you got too
frisky with her in public, then actually told
her that you'd be willing to "allow" her to do
more with you in private.

Both might have been bad, in your case.

If I were you, I would have:

1) Not let things get so heavy in the park.

2) Not mentioned being with her in private.

3) Ended the picnic, then casually led her to
your car, and took her to your place.

Remember, if you give a woman something to
resist, she usually will.

So don't.

In fact, it's often better to put things out
there as a playful CHALLENGE instead.

If a woman wants to see my house, I often say
"I'm not sure about this... I don't know if I
trust you. I'll tell you what. You can only
come in for a minute, and no funny business".

If I were you, I'd:

1) Wait a day to email her back.

2) Wait at least a couple of days to see her.

3) Keep yourself busy, and date other women.

4) Invite her over, and cook dinner.

You take things from there...

And pay careful attention to the comments I
made above. You're almost there...



***QUESTION***

Hey David,

I just bought a copy of your ebook and I think its
absolutely fantastic and to put it plainly
'right-on'. (This is coming from a guy who used to
think that any kind of book on dating would be a
load of crap). Your ideas have changed my beliefs.
Now I think I'm getting the C&F down pretty well...
but I recently went out on a date with a 7.5 and
we had a blast but there were one or two moments
during the date when both of us ran out of things
to say and so all I could think of was C&F so I
ended up blurting out ... "So why don't you tell
me an exciting story? If it's really good then I
might consider taking you out again and you can
even pay if you want!" This cracked her up and I
even ended up setting another date with her but I
was just wondering what I should do for future
occasions if such a situation ever arises!


Thanks!
Mo


>>>MY COMMENTS:

The thing that determines whether or not a silence
is "uncomfortable" is what happens RIGHT AFTER
IT.

In other words, most men get all kinds of nervous
if there is a silence... and by the time they
think of something to say, they SOUND nervous.

If you just realize that silences are normal, and
allow them to happen, you'll solve about 80% of
the problems that go along with them.

Don't let silences bother you.

When they happen (and they always do), just pick
the conversation back up later.

Again, most men let silences freak them out.

When you do this, then start acting nervous, it
INSTANTLY lets a woman know that you're trying
to impress her, and that you care too much about
what she thinks of you...

Which, of course, makes your concern backfire on
you.

Stay cool.

Don't let a silence bother you.



***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

I have been receiving your e-mails for almost a
month now and I am learning more about women than
I ever thought possible. Anyways, I used to always
have problems understanding when and what women
wanted from me. I've always seemed to make the
wrong move at the wrong time, and I've paid dearly
for it in many instances. BUT I now know the error
of my ways. Last week a very hot girl (thanks to
some of your suggestions) and I were sitting at my
place watching her favorite movie, the Princess
Bride, (all in all not a bad movie) when the power
suddenly went out. I had nothing to do with it, I
swear (wink, wink :) ). So after the initial shock
wore off for her we began talking and I used your
how-to-know-when-a-woman-wants-to-be-kissed
concept. And you know what? It worked! Not that I
was very surprised but I was a little. Thank you
so much for your thoughts and I'll soon be
ordering your advanced series.

JS, Vegas


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yea, "The Kiss Test" is a great one.

One of my favorites.

I love ideas that rejection-proof the process.



***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

Dear David,

A friend of mine (male) just forwarded your
newsletters to me to take a look at. He wanted my
candid (female) opinion on what you were saying.
After reading them over and checking out your site
(yea, you hooked me, I signed up for the
newsletter too) I love this stuff you're telling
these guys, keep it up!

Cocky & funny is totally the way to go. More
often than not, I see a guy in a club or coffee
shop, laundry mat (where ever) and they're sexxy,
hot, attractive or whatever and THEN they speak...
Its all over. No wit, no intelligence, no spark...
nothing. Sure they're great to look at, but thats
'bout it. And the guys that are witty and
intelligent are too scared to approach me. Now, I
just want to print out everything on your site and
hand it out like candy on Halloween to random guys.

A little about me...I'm 30, short? 5'2" bout
120ish lbs asian/irish combo and I consider myself
to be somewhere in the range of a 7-8, though most
guys I know throw me somewhere up over 10. I have
an awesome personality, am attractive, intelligent
and I know exactly what I want, when I want it and
am not afraid to say it.

And this thing you say about females being
competitive, lol! Its soooo true. My girl
friends hate me but come to me with every question
imaginable about how to deal with men, they call
me the heart breaker and of course they all tell
me I should write a book.

I have a large number of male friends and from
them I've learned this one valuable thing...Men
are incredibly easy to read, its a shame. They
truely get trapped in this cycle of behavior
patterns and have no way out, which makes them
semi-unattractive to the opposite sex. I'm not in
a successful relationship because it ALWAYS ends
with this confident and intelligent guy turning
into a blob of lime jello in my presence.

It starts like this, I meet guy, date guy (or
whatever use your imagination) he falls head over
heels WAY too fast then transforms from this
attractive appealing person to...yea jello. Most
of the girls I know want to know the secret to
turning a guy into mush and having them right
where they want them, but fail to understand that
its BORING! Women are somewhat like men and want
to be stimulated, though it does take different
things to stimulate women than men, but its a
basic common sense concept.

You keep telling these guys that chicks may think
they want the same old blah blah blah, but they
really don't, they want the...omfg RaR~!! Give
them that and they're totally yours...

Unless of course its me, then they'll always need
to change up to keep me interested, cuz i'm one in
a million (lol) I'd send you my picture and open
a correspondence with you because you seem hella
interesting and get "it", but then you'd fall
madly in love with me and abandon your technique...
then i'd have to break your heart ;)

D in MA


>>>MY COMMENTS:

All men should be forced to read this email every
day for 30 days in a row before they're allowed
to have their 18th birthday party.

AMEN sister!

By the way, if there's one thing you can bet
money on, it's that I'm not falling in love with
you because you send me a picture.

But it was a nice thought.

For you, I mean.



***SUCCESS STORY***

Seriously, dude, where were you 16 years ago when
I could have really used this stuff?

Not that I'm not having fun using it right now.
Your advice is pure gold. If there's a guy out
there on the fence right now about trying out the
C+F routine, hop off that fence and start using
it.

I recently divorced and started a new job, and
there's a hottie there that I'm not interested in
dating but has been a great test subject. I bust
her balls all the time, and she eats it up! I've
been getting free lunches out of the deal and get
to be seen with a beautiful woman, so there's no
downside.

Here's where your stuff really helped out, though.
One day she comes to my cubicle and I'm doing the
C+F thang -- when she suddenly gets pouty and calls
me mean. She says, with a frowny face, "I don't
like the way you keep making fun of me." Well, this
is certainly new behavior on her part, because up
until now she's been loving it. Then the light bulb
goes off in my head -- this is a test! "If you
don't like it," I respond very matter-of-factly,
"then don't smile so much when I do it." Her frown
melted into a smile and she invited me out to
another free lunch!

David, I swear, a few years back I would have
failed this test. I would have apologized for
making fun of her, immediately complimented her in
some way and made a total wimp out of myself. But
not now -- thanks to you!

P.S. -- You should have heard the guys in my
department after this little exchange. They
couldn't believe how smooth and calm I was. I
immediately sent them all a copy of your
newsletter.

-- P in Minneapolis


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Your response is CLASSIC Cocky & Funny.

"...then don't smile so much when I do it..."

LOVE IT... love it.

This is the way to communicate with women.

This is it.

Thanks... great story.



***QUESTION***

David...

Kudos on the Advanced Series CD set and the
eBook...it's absolutely phenomenal material! I'm
really feeling my confidence skyrocket with every
listen and application of this stuff. WOW!!!!

The other day, I was out at Borders Bookstore and
saw this very attractive girl reading a book, and
she looked deep in thought. Knowing that girls who
look like her are often treated like they are only
all beauty and no brains, I walk up to her and ask,
"Is this seat taken?" and sit down with her and
say, "I saw you sitting here and you looked like
you were very deep in thought and wanted to know...
<>
...what is on your mind?" David, she MELTED!!! I
hardly had to talk for the rest of 10-15 minutes I
was with her, because she was so excited that
someone saw her for her brains and not her boobs
(reallllly nice ones, at that...lol). I told her I
had to go and gave her MY NUMBER...and my phone has
been ringing off the hook!!!! This is a really
important concept you've harped on before: noticing
the typically unnoticed aspects of a woman - if
she's brainy and only modestly pretty, emphasize
her beauty and if a woman is very attractive, make
sure to stroke her intellect because these girls
never have attention paid to their mind, only to
their body. Woman LOVE IT that you notice these
unnoticed things about them...it makes them feel
like there is some sort of "cosmic connection"
between you and Her.

Now to the questions......In your CD Series, you
talk about setting the "ground rules" with women in
the very beginning of the relationship. One was
about telling a woman that your house is a place
with a calm, positive vibe and that no drama is
tolerated and the other was telling a woman that
you have zero intentions of starting a relationship
anytime soon. Now, these are awesome ideas that I
want to come across but do I tell the girls
directly or do I 'convey' them somehow? If so, how
do I convey these ideas??

Thanks A Lot!!!
D, Indiana


>>>MY COMMENTS:

In short, BOTH.

When it comes to my house, and telling a woman
the "rules" of being in my house, I like to tell
her DIRECTLY.

I lay it all out.

Why?

Why not imply it somehow?

Because in this case, telling her IS implying
something. But it's something ELSE.

When I lay down the rules for being in my house,
I'm communicating something FAR more important
to her.

I'm communicating that I'm in CONTROL of the
situation... and that this is MY territory.

Get it?

Remember in the Advanced Series when I explain
that women are ALWAYS interpreting the things
you say? And that you have to learn how to
STOP saying things directly, and start saying
everything by IMPLYING?

Well, this is a case of implying by saying
something ELSE directly.

I know, deep, man.

Great question...

And by the way, if you're reading this right
now, and you're ready to take your success
with women to an entirely different level,
then I have a few things to tell you...

First, I want to ask you something.

What is it that's holding you back?

What's stopping you from having success with
women?

Think about it for a minute.

Now I have something REALLY interesting to
share with you...

YOU'RE WRONG.

See, I know that most guys have a "secret
reason" why they fail with women.

Maybe it's that they're too short.

Or maybe it's because they're too old.

Or maybe it's because they're bald.

Whatever it is, it's THE big reason.

Unfortunately, most guys walk around with
their "secret reason", and use it to explain
to themselves why NOTHING can EVER work for
them.

As they read these newsletters, in their minds
they're constantly saying "That's a great story,
but that would never work for ME because of
my secret reason...".

Are you with me here?

Well guess what...

WE ALL HAVE A SECRET REASON.

But the fact is that you're WRONG.

Your secret reason IS ABSOLUTELY NOT the
reason why you don't have the kind of success
with women that you'd like to have.

The REAL reason why you don't have the level
of success you want is because you're not
DOING ANYTHING about it.

I have spent a lot of time getting to know a
lot of guys who are successful with women.

And guess what?

MOST of them are NOT what you would expect.

Sure, I know a few guys that are tall, rich,
and handsome.

But the MAJORITY of guys that I know who are
successful with women are AVERAGE OR BELOW
in MOST areas of their lives.

I know at least 4 or 5 SHORT guys who date
so many hot women it would make your head
spin.

Most of the guys I know who are really good
with women make average incomes.

...and on and on.

I now believe 100% that you can overcome any
little "disadvantage" that you have, and go on
to become VERY successful with women.

One more thing...

I've spent a LOT of time putting my eBook and
other products together.

Think about this for a moment...

What if I asked you to spend a few YEARS of
your life, thousands of dollars of your own
money, and all kind of hard work and effort
to learn something?

What if I told you that at the end of that
time, I wanted to have you create a program
that taught me everything you learned, but I
was only going to pay you a couple of hundred
bucks to do it?

What would you say?

You'd probably laugh at me.

Well, that's what I'VE done myself.

I've spent YEARS figuring out this area of
my life for MYSELF. I took the time to try
all kinds of crazy ideas, and test everything
I learned.

Most of it didn't work.

Most of it sucked.

I wasted more time trying stupid things than
anyone I know.

But the good news is that I figured it out.

I took myself from not being able to even walk
over and talk to a woman to being able to date
the most beautiful and intelligent women alive.

And now I've created the programs that I WISH
I had when I started.

I'm serious about this.

I always ask myself "What do I wish I had when
I started"... and I go from there.

Finally, I've been doing something lately that
is UNHEARD OF...

In the past, I got a lot of emails that said
things like "If your stuff is so great, why
don't you send me a free copy, and if it works
for me, I'll pay you...".

I just laughed and said "Yea, right, whatever".

But the more I thought about it, the more I
realized that this was the way I PERSONALLY
would like things to be when I buy things.

So guess what?

I tried it.

And it seems to be working pretty well.

Here's the deal:

If you want to download my eBook or order my
Advanced Series, I'll let you do it for a
FREE TRIAL.

That's right, you don't have to pay up front
for it.

If you like it, keep it. If not, you don't pay.

All the details are here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.net/11977/AdvancedSeries/

...for the Advanced Series.

http://www.DatingTechniques.net/11977/eBook/

...for the eBook.

This offer is the real deal. No tricks.

Check it out.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.



P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the "Your
stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how
well your stuff works" comments, but the fact is
that I DO need to hear all of the specifics...
because this helps other guys to see what's
working in different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success
Story" in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you're from.

5) Send it to me at:

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"The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women-
And What To Do About It...”

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women-And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple...

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince" Her To Like You

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens...

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.



MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME by men.

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

There's a much better way...

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how...

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea...

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women

Now I'm going to blow your mind...

A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.

If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

Hey, I've been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States... and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.

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Your Friend,

David DeAngelo


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***SUCCESS STORY***

Ive been a Wussy all my life, hooked up with a
seemingly great gal, married, etc. and she started
being unhappy. She wanted to separate and the more
I tried to "give her what she wanted" the worse it
got. So here I was, starting all over again. got
your e-book and I was insulted at first about the
things I read, but I tried not to judge it yet. I
went on to test your theories and found a lot of
it really works and is true, especially about not
giving a woman what she wants (not directly or
immediately anyway). I went onto get your
Advanced DVD series and I am very impressed at
how much more useful information is there,
especially the stuff about re-programming the way
we think about our selves and goals in situations.

Ive started approaching more and more 10's (not
that women should be "rated") being myself and
most importantly: as if I could care less about
talking to them, as if they owe me something
already, poking fun at something they say, do,
have, or are (short, amazon tall, etc) and bust
their balls for it... but ALWAYS in a playful
friendly way with a big cocky smile. They eat it
up and cant get enough, so I try to pull back
(thats where my problem is). Since im still a
newbie I want to keep going but I realize thats
exactly when I need to hit the breaks and give
her the gift of missing me, and making her
confused about what just happened so shell be
thinking about me till we meet again ;) .. this
wont be my last posting to you David!!


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, my hat is off to you.

I don't actually wear a hat, but you get the
idea.

You have done something that I have A LOT of
respect for...

You've opened your mind to a new way of looking
at something.

You mentioned that when you first read my book
you initially felt "insulted".

But you also say that you tried not to judge
what you were reading, and instead you went
out and TESTED THE MATERIALS yourself to
see if they actually worked for you.

Look, this is a big deal.

The reason I have so much admiration for you
is because most men are too stuck in one way
of thinking to even TRY something new.

Every once in awhile I get an email from a
guy who says "your techniques would NEVER
work"... or "I'll bet you're making up all
of the emails in your newsletters"... etc.

I have to laugh to myself when I see this
kind of thing.

First of all, all you have to do is walk out
your door, and TRY some of the things you're
learning.

Just TRY THEM.

Test them out (like you did).

Take a week of your life and try new things
to see if they work.

It so simple.

But then again, I guess it isn't.

Well, congratulations again for actually
putting yourself out there, controlling your
emotions, and putting it to the test.

You're going to see DRAMATIC improvements in
the near future with women.

Again, you have my respect for doing something
that most guys don't have the guts to do.



***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

I've always been big into motivational materials.
I've read every one of Napleon Hill's books at
least 10 times each plus dozens of others from
several authors. I bought your DVD series
obviously to increase my success with women but
the material applies to all areas of life. I've
watched it over and over and over again during
the past 2 months and the changes are amazing. A
lot of potential I had locked up inside me seems
to have been unleashed. Going out and having
success with women definitely adds confidence to
all areas of life but the self-image and
self-confidence exercises you go through have had
a lot to do with it as well.

For quite some time I'd been working on finishing
up a sales training book and audio program based
on the huge success I've had in my selling career
using unconventional methods. Finally, about a
month ago while watching your program again
something just snapped in my head and I sat down,
got the website up, got the marketing started,
finished up the product, and I'm already making
more money from that than from my job and already
have booked my first speaking engagement.
Seriously, your program and the self-improvement
messages and exercises had a lot to do with it.
(Interestingly, I've also had the concept of
perceived "fame" with women proven to me. My site
has an "about the author" page with a photo and
several women have already emailed me with
pictures practically begging to meet me in
person). The conversion rate from my homemade
site has been high enough to justify the expense
of having a custom professional site done which
is in the works now.

Dave, thanks not only for more success with women
but in my life in general!

Things are definitely going to the next level for
me and this bit of business success has also
changed my perspective and my "reality" with
women in a big way too, and when I go out it's
obvious that they know it without me having to
say a word.

FR
Phoenix AZ


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, as you can probably tell, I've read quite
a few "self help" books myself, and spent a lot
of time reading "motivational materials".

I found something VERY SIMILAR to what you found
in my journey over the last few years...

Guys who go from unsuccessful to successful with
women also tend to find success in other areas
of their lives as well.

There's something about being CONFIDENT in the
fact that you can leave your house anytime, any
day, anywhere and meet women that kind of puts
your mind "at ease".

I can remember five years ago or so in my own
life... when I was single, I was insecure.

That was that.

If I didn't have a girlfriend, I felt this
STRONG insecurity and weakness. It was a kind
of "shadow" that covered all of the other
areas of my life.

Now things are very different.

By the way, let's face reality for a minute...
most guys are trying to be successful in life
to attract women.

Why do guys try to earn a lot of money?

Why do guys strive for fame?

Why do guys compete with each other?

Of course, it's not ALL for women. But it is
MOSTLY for women in the long run.

Back to what I was saying...

Now that I can meet women anytime I want, it
has freed up a part of my mind that used to
be devoted to trying to figure out how to get
a girlfriend... and worrying because I didn't
have one.

And, of course, my own personal success has
improved as well.

I think you're right on track here... thanks
for the email.




***QUESTION***

Dave,

Finally a chance came to really test your book
and I was overwhelmed by the results. I had
gotten your online book about 6 months ago and
now that I'm out of Student Teaching I have time
to put it to work. I was the DD for a trip to a
really hot club in NC. I overcame my fear of
dancing and got out there. I was rejected by some
girls but that didn't matter: I ended up spending
some good time with the most INCREDIBLE looking
woman I have ever seen. She is as if God had put
her together out of all my favorite things in a
woman.

I played by the rules. Left her and danced with
several others just when things were looking
great. Just before closing time I've got her by
the hand leading her to the bar. A couple of
cocky/funny minutes and I have her email and
phone number. What a confidence booster!

Only thing is, she is spanish and doesn't speak
english very well. Thank God I speak a little
spanish myself. I just emailed her back (she
wanted to know when I was moving to NC). But how
to do C & F when English isn't the main language?

Thanks,

Boosted but needing help still.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol... say what?

Now you know how to meet beautiful women, and
you're emailing me to ask how to be Cocky &
Funny by email with a woman who speaks a
different language?

lol... you're killing me. (lol=laugh out loud)

Don't worry about being Cocky & Funny. This
girl obviously likes you...

Cocky & Funny is a PIECE of the formula. Not
the entire thing. In this case, open up your
"Bridges" report that you got with Double Your
Dating, and READ IT AGAIN.

You need to get in FRONT of this girl again,
and DO SOMETHING!

The hottest girl in the world is waiting for
you, man. Don't dilly-dally.

Now get to it, and quit wasting time writing
her love letters!


***QUESTION***

David,

I am a 51 year old widower who had dated pretty
attractive women in high school and in college.
But after being married twice and falling into
the "yes dear" routine, I had definitely become a
"wussy" boy over the past twenty years. I had
been dating a few women recently, but not getting
to first base with the beautiful ones I really
wanted to go out with. I thought it was because I
was older, had a few gray hairs in my beard, and
could stand to take about twenty pounds of the
old "spare tire". Not so....

I started receiving your e-newsletter about six
weeks ago and decided "what the hell have I got
to loose?", let's try some of his suggestions,
I'm not getting what I want anyway.... Well, I am
now dating five different women between the ages
of 35 and 47, three of them are drop-dead gorgeous.
One I have been going out with for a while knows
that I am seeing other women, but is OK with it
as long as I still go out with her. A 39 year old
I met online a month ago just wants to meet
regularly for a "no strings attached" sexual
relationship and we've gotten together three
times. I met her in person two days after I first
wrote to her using your "Funny & Cocky" approach.
She's the least attractive of the lot but one of
the best lovers I've ever been with and even has
me talking her to climax over the phone when we
can't be together in person!

Dave, thanks for your help. I once again feel
like the man I was in my twenties!

Later,
MojoMan


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, I'll bet your friends hate your guts right
about now.

Then again, doesn't sound to me like you've had
any time to call them... so what the hell.

Isn't it interesting how different things can
be when you know how to communicate with women
in a way that triggers their ATTRACTION?

Women love the play, the challenge, the mystery,
and the EMOTIONS that they feel when you use
this stuff.

Great job, and thanks for the email.

Oh, and I personally believe that any man who
utters the words "Yes, dear" as a serious response
to a woman should be taken out back, beaten until
crying (which probably wouldn't take long), and
forced to wear an uncomfortable, tight-fitting
dress to the chalkboard. at which time he should
be made to write "I will stop acting like a Wuss
Bag" four million times.

Nothing personal, mind you...



***SUCCESS STORY***

My shy demeanor while standing back and hoping my
looks will attract has provided little success
with the hot women I wanted to meet. I am 44 years
old and have been doing this shy respectful what
does she think of me frame forever and real
results where just not happening.

I bought your advanced series and was hooked.
Reframing and not caring about the outcome is so
powerful! On the first night out after listening
to your series was fantastic. I went to a concert
with a friend of mine and I immediately interacted
with a very attractive 25 year old at the
refreshment counter. At intermission we were back
for more with her but just not really getting in.
At that moment I stopped 2 very hot women walking
by and proceeded with cocky and funny and a who
cares about the outcome frame and within two
minutes one of them was asking for MY number and
actually initiated a kiss!!

Women are Competitive, I turned around and this
attractive server was wide eyed smiling and also
proceeded to also ask for my number. I am getting
together with both of them after they initiated
the first call to me the very next day! I felt
that power in almost every situation I encountered
that night and ended up with 8 phone numbers in
total!

This was only my first step with so much more to
come. Your series was clearly the best investment
I have made in this women and dating area! IT
WORKS!!!

Thanks David
N Z
Milwaukee, WI


>>>MY COMMENTS:

8 Phone numbers in one night out.

For a "shy and respectful" 44 year old guy.

Not bad, I'd say.

BUT THAT'S not the BEST part!

The BEST part is that you "GOT" an important
lesson. You realized that women are VERY,
ULTRA, MIND-BOGGLINGLY COMPETITIVE. (Don't
you love it when you say a word, but you
don't know if you made it up, but you don't
care either because it was perfect?)

Yes, women are VERY competitive with each
other.

And one of the STRANGEST aspects of this
competitive nature is that the MORE
ATTRACTIVE a woman is, the more COMPETITIVE
she usually is with other women.

I can't figure this one out for the life of
me, but hey... I don't ask why electricity
works. I just flip the light switch on.

Married guys often get more than their fair
share of attention from women.

If you're out on a date with a super-hot
woman, other women will look at you (and
her) more.

If women see you talking to other women, they
will be more likely to talk to you.

If you walk into a bar and talk to every
woman in the place, other women will see it
and be more receptive to you.

Are these universals? No. But they do TEND
to be true in most cases.

And the situation you mentioned... talking to
one or more women, then stopping to talk to
DIFFERENT women, then turning BACK to the first
one or ones you were talking is is VERY
POWERFUL.

It "says all the right things" without you
even having to "say" anything.

It's like strong eye contact, or slow and
deliberate movements. It's something that
INSTANTLY communicates everything that you
need to say without words.

By the way, thanks for calling my program the
best investment you've ever made "in the women
and dating area". I put a lot of time and energy
to make it the best, and it's great to hear that
it's working for you.



***COMMNENT***

Hi David,

I'm B and I'm eighty one years old. I've been
on your mailing list for some time and think that
what you are doing is truly marvelous. Just being
on your list has changed my outlook on
relationships and self respect. Habits of
deference to females is pretty ingrained in old
guys like me, but I'm trying to adjust to your
inspiration. I've been "dating" a couple of
younger (60-70s) for bike rides and such and
thank you for new insight.

You are a national treasure.
B (old high school teacher)


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Now THAT'S what I call cool...

You have to write me a story about one of your
"younger gals"... this is going to be VERY
interesting.

I love my job.



***QUESTION***

Hi David,

I have your Advanced Dating Techniques DVD set and
it was well worth the money spent many times over.
It has been amazing to see how many mistakes I
have made over the years with women due to a weak
inner game and understanding of women. Thank you
for taking the time and energy to put this series
together. I am finally "getting it." I am now
putting your techniques into practice with a new
confidence and will report back soon I'm sure with
success stories.

My question is when using online dating services
such as match.com, what is an effective way to
describe yourself in your profile, what you're
looking for in a mate, and also what are
effective methods for an initial email to a woman
of interest?

Regards,

whm
Irvine, California


>>>MY COMMENTS:

It sounds to me like you haven't listened to the
ENTIRE program yet.

Later in the program you'll find that I have
actually provided you with examples of profiles
that I've personally used to meet women online,
several examples of instant message conversations,
and insights into the psychology of meeting women
using the internet.

I met my last girlfriend on the internet,
actually. She's 5'10" tall, and the hottest
woman you've ever seen in your life. Not to
mention intelligent, funny, emotionally stable,
and a joy to be around.

And she contacted ME first.

ALSO, I interview one of my good friends who
taught ME how to meet women online... and he
shares some of his secret strategies as well.

A hint about most of these personals sites
that most guys don't know:

If you update your profile, it brings your ad
back "to the top of the pile" and more women
see it.

So update your profile DAILY. Even a small
change will do.

That one little tip will EXPONENTIALLY
increase your results...

Now LISTEN TO THE PROGRAM!

It's all in there.

...and speaking of "It's all in there", if you're
reading this right now and you haven't invested
in my "Advanced Dating Techniques" program, then
TIME IS A WASTIN'.

Remember a year or so back when I wrote a KILLER
newsletter about how to use personal ads to meet
women?

Remember the exact word-for-word example response
that I included in that newsletter?

If you do, then you remember all the guys who
wrote in over the following month or so talking
about using that "cut and paste" to get tons
of responses from women.

That particular newsletter is reprinted word-for-
work in my Advanced Dating Techniques Program.

Guess what else is in there?

Oh, a few things like all of my PERSONAL
approaches that I use with women... the exact
words I use myself that I don't share ANYWHERE
except in that program and in my LIVE SEMINARS.

Things like the specific exercises that I have
used PERSONALLY for YEARS to improve my own
self image and overcome my own fears of women.

Things like live interviews with five of my
friends who are AMAZING WITH WOMEN... so
you can SEE and HEAR them... and understand
how they communicate... and listen to the
exact things they do to meet women...

Things like exactly how to smoothly take
things to a "physical level" with a MINIMUM
RISK of "rejection". These techniques are
so powerful that I personally guarantee to
you that women will comment on them and even
THANK YOU for using them. I know, sounds a
little hard-to-believe, but I'm not kidding.

The point is that this program is the best
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In other words, you don't have to decide now.

You can order it, watch or listen to it all
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I'll talk to you again soon.


Your Friend,


David D.




P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the "Your
stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how
well your stuff works" comments, but the fact is
that I DO need to hear all of the specifics...
because this helps other guys to see what's
working in different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success
Story" in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you're from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

...don't just hit "reply" to this email. Thanks!