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IMPORTANT NOTE: Contained in this particular
Mailbag is something INCREDIBLE. You'll know it
when you see it, so keep your eyes open.


***SUCCESS STORY***

Hey Dave,

Just wanted to drop you a line on how my personal
story has been going since I started doing things
"your way". I have checked every "girl strategy"
out there, you know the ones, and have to say that
your system is the most simple, and most effective
one out there. Your system gives men the start,
and allows them to put their own personal touches
on it. Then, after some success,(and some
failures, of course, hehe) we can come back and
get even more out of it. Awesome, man.

I'm 27, and have tried your way starting 2 years
ago. It took me a long time to get "it", but the
journey has been incredible. My friends can't
believe the change in me, and I am now helping
friends who I once thought were so much better
than me. My relationships with women are so much
more fulfilling now than they ever were when I was
just trying to "get laid".

I think the one fundamental issue you push, which
is so overlooked, is the idea that a man can be
absolutely honest, know what he wants, and get it.
There are no tricks here, this is about being
absolutely true to yourself. That is what attracts
women to us, our unfaltering honesty, even when we
are afraid that that honesty will push them away.
The exact opposite is true.

Buying dinner, flowers, kissing ass, all of that
crap is, at its core element, dishonest. Being
cocky and funny, being true to yourself, and
acting like a man, is, at core element, totally
honest. I think women really appreciate that, and
I think it turns them on in a way that even they
don't understand. I am really starting to get this,
and it gets better every day.

Please put out more products, we want them, and
have no problem paying a reasonable price for this
information. My several different girl"friends"
each hotter than the next, appreciate this as well.
My life has never been so good. Thanks for making
it that way, I owe you way more than the price of
your products, of which I have purchased all. God
bless you man, you rock.

Your friend,

M


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yea, it really is amazing that there is a way to
have success with women... while still being an
honest, straight-shooting guy.

Whodathunkit, huh?

A few more comments...

Yes, I know how frustrating it is to go searching
for good information on how to be more successful
with women and dating... only to find half-baked
ideas from people who have no clue what they're
doing.

And you're observation that buying women gifts,
food, and flower is, at its core, DISHONEST is
pretty interesting, too.

Most of the guys who look at my stuff and say "I
don't like your ideas because I don't like to
MANIPULATE women" will turn right around and have
no problem buying a woman dinner in hopes that
she'll sleep with them.

Go figure.

Well congrats on sticking with it and getting
this part of your life handled. It feels good,
and I have a lot of respect for guys who take
the initiative to go DO SOMETHING.

Thanks for your email.



***SUCCESS STORY***

Here's one for the history books: David DeAngelo,
the Man who made Dating Scientific.

It's amazing how turned off women are by eager
guys working hard to impress, and how much they
love the composed bad boys who refuse to kiss ass.
At a party I overheard a nearby conversation where
a guy was talking to a hot girl, basically kissing
up to her with the infinitely boring "yeah, I see
what you mean" and "I really identify with that"
type responses. I just sat there with a kind of
crooked half-smile, and in a minute the girl
started talking to me. I used one of your best
rules, Never Give a Woman a Direct Answer Unless
it's No. Before long, this girl was telling me I
acted like a "stone cold psycho" who could "bury
somebody in a field somewhere and never think
twice". Next thing I know she's handing me her
number. Now I have no interest at all in killing
people, but it cracks me up that this chick jokes
about me being a psycho and then wants to go out.

JC
Knoxville, TN


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Hey, I never said that women make sense.

lol...

You know, several serial killers have all kinds
of female "worshippers".

And have you ever noticed how when some crazy
dude escapes from jail, they always find him
shackin' up with his old girlfriend?

Now, fortunately it's not necessary to be a
serial killer or felon to attract women (but
it doesn't seem to hurt if you are).

Women DEFINITELY don't feel that powerful "Gut
Level Attraction" for "nice, sweet, needy guys".

ATTRACTION is a process that has developed over
a LOOOOOOONG time. It's not something that women
think about and "work up to". It's not something
that women PLAN.

ATTRACTION happens for reasons all its own, and
you can't CONVINCE a woman to feel it.

You've obviously found success using these
"illogical" techniques that I teach. Good for
you, and keep it up.



***COMMENT***

Hi

I ordered your double dating series and read
through it this weekend...

After reading the material it struck me that this
just isn't related to attracting the opposite sex..
it relates to "everything"....like my career, how
other men respect me, etc, etc..

Their is only one thing I really want first and
that is self respect, and after that have the guts
to be tough, honest, funny and take a chance..

I have been angry with woman for a long time (and
I don't mean in violent way) but more like afraid
to go out with them, or blaming them for not being
interested in me....

Its been more like confusion about what do they
want,, (and then I don't understand) which ends up
in anger,, and then the cycle continues.... I want
this war to stop with myself. (because its me
being angry with myself)

I listen to men's pain all the time.and its this
confusion (that men don't understand what woman
want), and also poor self esteem.. so they settle
for less and end up being bossed around and poorly
treated.......

which ends up as men exploding with anger.........

I want all men to have their manhood back (and I
mean in a good way) treat woman well and bust them
when they push our buttons..

I think I may start having some fun too!!!!


Sincerely

SG


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yea, I feel ya, dog.

Here's the scenario:

You're talking to your hot female co-worker, and
she starts talking about her abusive jerk boyfriend
who is constantly treating her poorly.

You sit and listen for an hour, hoping that she'll
realize what a great guy you are... and then
consider you instead of him.

At the end of the conversation, she stands up, says
"Thanks for being such a GREAT FRIEND", and kisses
you on the cheek.

A week later, she's crying because her jerk BF
is at it again.

It's not too hard to get mad at women for this type
of thing.

I've been there.

I've had girlfriends who basically broke up with
me or never got together with me in the first
place... and instead chose to be with guys who
didn't treat them well.

But you're on the right track here.

Stop blaming women.

Instead, start learning how to make them feel that
powerful ATTRACTION for YOU.

Sure, it takes a little effort. But I cannot
imagine a greater investment in yourself and your
personal life.

Nice!

I'm looking forward to hearing a Success Story
from you very soon.



***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

I have received your emails for quite sometime
now and never did buy the book but after this
weekend I have to get the whole nine yards. You
have said not to be needy and to treat the women
like little sister brats. Believe you me it works
amazingly. I am engaged to a 9 and lately things
seemed to get a little boring. My girlfriend
started acting a little distant so I thought why
not. I didn't tell her I loved her as quickly and
quit going for a little kiss when the feeling took
hold. In other words I took two steps forward and
one step back. She looked at me kinda funny a
couple of times and then just jumped my bones
right on the couch in the middle of the day when
we were expecting friends over for a bar-b-que. I
kept the cocky and funny up all night and through
the rest of the weekend. By Sunday night things
were going just as hot as when we first met. Your
material kept a fire from dying into ashes. Hope
your printing doesn't run out before my next
payday. LOL.


J in Texas


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yea, you'd better get on it...

Even worse than not being able to meet women in
the first place is meeting an EXCEPTIONAL woman
and then LOSING her because you're a jackass.

You do her and yourself a favor, and save your
pennies for my ADVANCED SERIES.

Hell, she'll probably buy it for you if you
can't.

Even though I don't talk about "relationships"
very often, I will say that the REAL challenge
begins when you have one.

Keeping a relationship fresh, fun, and interesting
is quite a challenge... and you're not going to
do it if you turn into a Wussy as time goes on.

Good job, man. Keep it up.



***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

Dear David:

You sad, misbegotten, hopeless fool. No wonder
you have such hideous luck with women.

With your philosophy, it's an absolute guarantee
that will continue.

Good luck with the sad, misbegotten, hopeless
women you are guaranteed to attract, and that you
doom your pathetic, clueless subscribers to
attract.

Omigod.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, your sad, hopeless, misbegotten... and
REDUNDANT email really put me in my place.

And what are you talking about "hideous luck"
with women?

I date the smartest, hottest, and most interesting
women running around on the planet.

Get a life, and call up the Redundancy Department
Of Redundancy for some tips on how to not sound
like a dumbass.

DAMMIT! I just broke my own rule again of not
allowing any letters from people who prove beyond
the shadow of a doubt that they are a JACKASS
within the first three sentences of their email.

When will I ever learn?



***QUESTION***

Hi,

I have a quick question. I started playing bass
because I thought women liked musicians. that
was six years ago. It's true, I do get a lot of
attention because of my skill at the instrument,
but I can't seem to hang on to a girlfriend.
What are your views on women and musicians?


>>>MY COMMENTS:

I think you need the answer to a DIFFERENT
question.

The question that YOU need the answer to is:

"What are my views on women and WUSSIES?"

...because I'll bet you a dollar that the problem
is you turning INTO A WUSSY.

When a guy can't seem to hold on to a woman, the
problem is ALMOST ALWAYS one of the following:

1) He turns into a clingy, needy Wuss at some
point during the relationship.

2) He becomes PREDICTABLE and BORING at some
point during the relationship.

So stop doing those things.

And instead learn how to keep the ATTRACTION
building and growing.

It's possible, but you must LEARN how.

Stay tuned for more good info.

Oh, and stop committing the two sins that I
mentioned above in the meantime.



***QUESTION***

I've been reading your emails for about two months
now, and I love your stuff! Very interesting and
enlightening. But I have a conundrum that brings
up a good question.

I'm 32 years old, married for 10 years, three
kids, suburban house, white picket fence, 3.2 pets
in the house, yadda yadda (The .2 pet is just a
pitiful thing, hobbling around on two legs ...)
Kidding. Anyway, I read in an earlier email that
your ideas and methods work even in a marriage
relationship, and that you can still build
attraction even with someone you've been with
forever. Now, if what I am reading is correct,
your core concept of attraction has to do with
mystery and anticipation, rather than chivalry and
"niceness." Now, this lady has seen me with my
pants down around my ankles with a fly swatter and
a jar of peanut butter (figuratively speaking);
how can I build anticipation and mystery when she
knows me so well? If I try the three minute kiss
test thing, she gonna slap my hand and say "Stop
playing with my hair; I just had it colored! Go
take out the garbage! And stop playing with the
peanut butter!" Any insight would be a help!

Thanks!

D.C. Northern CA


>>>MY COMMENTS:

"...a conundrum that brings up a good question"?

She's gonna SLAP YOUR HAND?

And tell you to go take out the garbage?

Dude, you're in major trouble.

I've heard of men in your position waking up
with a key part of their anatomy missing.

It's not pretty.

From the sounds of it, you may already be
missing some of this aforementioned equipment.

Better check.

I'll tell you what...

You have two basic choices:

1) Buy your wife some new pants and yourself a
new skirt, because it's obvious that this is
what she's expecting.

2) Remove your high-heels, your apron, and your
WUSSY ATTITUDE, and HE-BITCH-MAN-SLAP yourself
IMMEDIATELY!

Man, WAKE UP.

I know, I know... I don't like to talk about
marriage and relationships. Again, I just
couldn't help myself.

Look, Mystery and Anticipation don't have
anything to do with you walking around with
your pants down carrying a fly swatter and a
jar of peanut butter.

It has to do with how you communicate with
her... how you touch her... how you kiss her...
and how you behave. You obviously need to learn
this stuff.

And by they way, what the hell are you doing
walking around in front of your wife with your
pants down carrying, OF ALL THINGS, a fly
swatter and PEANUT BUTTER?

Sounds to me like there's something you're
not sharing with us.

And I'm not going even speculate.

I'm scared.



***QUESTION***

I just started the DVD series, and I can't say
enough good things about it. I can already feel
my confidence and self-image improving.

I realized something recently that I'm sure you
and a lot of other guys have encountered. When I
talk to my guy friends about girls I'm dating or
interested in, they tend to encourage and push me
to action. When I talk to my female friends about
girls I'm dating or interested in, they tend to
say negative things about the girl and plant
doubts in my head. What do you think about that?
Even though there's no romantic interest between
me and my female friends, are they acting
competitive on some subconscious level?

R.C, Dallas


>>>MY COMMENTS:

THE ANSWER IS YES.

If you think MEN are competitive, just wait until
you start dating more WOMEN.

You will not believe how competitive women are.

A friend of mine pointed something out to me a
few years ago.

He said "You know when you go out to a nice bar
or club, and all the women are dressed up, have
their hair done, and their makeup perfect? Well
they're not fixed up like that for the men...
it's for the other WOMEN."

Now, at first that made no sense to me.

But the more I've paid close attention, the more
I realize that it's RIGHT ON.

Women are VERY competitive.

In fact, one of the best ways to meet women is
to GO OUT with a cute female friend (or more
than one).

Women are always more interested in a guy who
already has women around him than a guy who
doesn't.

This is one of the reasons why so many married
guys talk about how much more often they're
approached by women now that they're married...

Female psychology is VERY interesting.

You will learn a TON as you go through my DVD
program. It's going to blow your mind.

If you think you're feeling confident now, just
wait until you get further into it... and then
go out and try some of the things you're
learning... and then come back and watch it
again.

That program is like a treasure map, with all
the clues you need to find the gold.

It has taken me YEARS to really put all of the
pieces together... from female behavior and
psychology, to ATTRACTION, to the things you
need to do to change your self-image and
shyness around women into comfort and success.

Thanks for the comments.

...and if you're reading this right now and
you're thinking "Yea, that's what I need... to
get this part of my life handled", then guess
what?

YOU'RE RIGHT.

You do.

And if you'd prefer to save yourself a few
YEARS of trial and error (or more), and a lot
of MONEY and TIME, then I suggest you check out
my Advanced Dating Techniques program.

It will definitely help you take your success
with women to a whole new level, whether you're
just starting out or you already have some
success with women.

It comes with a 100% money-back guarantee. If
you don't meet more women, just send it back
for a full refund. No questions, no hassles.
And I mean it.

All the details, plus some great audio and video
samples are here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.net/11977/AdvancedSeries/

IMPORTANT UPDATE:

For a limited time, I'm testing a CRAZY idea...

If you haven't downloaded your copy of my online
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refuse...

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That's right, I said FREE. I'm testing a new
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What's better than a 100% money-back guarantee?

THIS IS.

All the details are here:

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But get it while it's hot. It might not be
here tomorrow.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.



P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the "Your
stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how
well your stuff works" comments, but the fact is
that I DO need to hear all of the specifics...
because this helps other guys to see what's
working in different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success
Story" in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you're from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

...don't just hit "reply" to this email. Thanks!




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